This is a little lame, but i think this emphasizes the reason I became such a bitter person. The following is a Message battle I had on facebook with a jerk. I had my moments of dropping F-bombs, but then I calmed down. These are the types of people I want everyone to watch out for. I know the urge to smash them in the face with a chair is rising, but contain yourself...
me: please stop posting such cruel things on the RIP wall.
him: please stop being a butthurt faggot
me: you know what you god damn bigot motherfucker you can take all your narrow minded shit and shove it right back up your ass where it belongs. I was trying to be nice, but if you want to get into a fucking message battle with me I'm more than willing to bury you.
him: fine have it your way: I challenge you to a Poke'battle!
me: this is not a pokemon battle. I would say that I'm trying to respect that you have different opinions that me, but your opinions are not worth respecting. Why are you so against people paying respects to people who have died? If you had a friend kill themselves, would you want people bashing them like you're doing?
him: do you forfeit?
me: Forfeit? im still arguing with you. just because Im not stooping to your level of base argument style doesn't mean i forfeit anything. besides, as soon as you started typing you lost.
him: no...you just lost.....the game. and coincedentily so did i
me: .... as funny as i find that, i think I'm going to stop taking to you now. You aren't taking what you say seriously and I'm done with you. if you want to say I backed out, be my guest. you and i will know the truth of this conversation (not that it will weigh on your mind much.) Please try to be more considerate in the future Andrew.
it was at this point that i blocked him because i realized i had been arguing with a man that had the mentality of a 5 year old. he had nothing substantial to say and while he proved himself to be a complete tool, I shall continue to be depressed for the rest of the night.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Time to Recognize
Published: october 7th
When asked if the recognition of the Gay Straight Alliance was apparent in MSUM, Lacey Scheelk responded with a flat out and unhesitant “No.” In lieu of that response, freshmen, I pose this question to you: during your campus tours, did your guide make it a point to inform you of the GSA clubroom in the CMU? I’ll bet that most of you would say no. How many of you didn’t even know MSUM had a GSA club till you walked past it on your way to Kise? I’ll bet most of you would raise your hands. The sad fact is that GSA seems to reside in a dark little unknown corner of MSUM’s campus and members of said club are not at all pleased. Justin Barton heartily agrees with Lacey’s observation in saying that “those who are afraid to come out, or get involved would not be required to go out of their way to ask about GSA if its presence was made readily known from the start.”
As a bisexual and active GSA supporter since middle school, my college choice was strongly influenced by what type of community the campus presented. What is MSUM saying to the potential students of a minority community when the mention of the Rainbow Dragon room is sometimes completely avoided? I’ve noticed that people who walk into the room sometimes seem shocked when the find out just where they are and they end up walking right back out with a flustered or annoyed expression. This, in the words of a friend, is just “not cool.”
Perhaps as a freshman three years ago, I was a bit naive in my initial assumption that a tight knit community like Moorhead would not have issues with GSA comings and goings. Perhaps I was even naive in thinking that college would perhaps offer a better experience as a she-oriented individual than high school did. Apparently my assumptions were wrong. Now, I know that it is mostly up to the club itself to promote its events and purpose, but I feel that the general attitude towards gay people on MSUM is still one of misunderstanding. This makes me sad, but it also makes me want to do something. I’m not going the Lavender route and shouting, “Recruit, recruit, recruit,” in any way shape or form, but I’m going to express what I feel should be known as a common truth. The gay community is present here and we are not sitting out anymore. The time of assuming that being attracted to the same sex, or that being confused about gender identity is something to be ashamed of has passed.
Because this campus has a strong conservative presence and there have even been reports of harassment in the past, if I had not happened upon the rainbow flag in the CMU, I don’t think I would have considered enrolling. It is important for people, especially in this time of their lives when strong relationships can be built, to feel that they have a safe place to go and be heard. The GSA community faces enough problems as is, and in a place of higher learning these problems are nothing but a hindrance to progress. It is my humble opinion that to correct these injustices, MSUM’s GSA club should be a noteworthy point on Dragon Day guides’ itinerary. Conservatives may not like it, but we’re here and we’re queer and nothing they say (or don’t say in this case) is going to change it! Thank you for your time. Stay curious.
When asked if the recognition of the Gay Straight Alliance was apparent in MSUM, Lacey Scheelk responded with a flat out and unhesitant “No.” In lieu of that response, freshmen, I pose this question to you: during your campus tours, did your guide make it a point to inform you of the GSA clubroom in the CMU? I’ll bet that most of you would say no. How many of you didn’t even know MSUM had a GSA club till you walked past it on your way to Kise? I’ll bet most of you would raise your hands. The sad fact is that GSA seems to reside in a dark little unknown corner of MSUM’s campus and members of said club are not at all pleased. Justin Barton heartily agrees with Lacey’s observation in saying that “those who are afraid to come out, or get involved would not be required to go out of their way to ask about GSA if its presence was made readily known from the start.”
As a bisexual and active GSA supporter since middle school, my college choice was strongly influenced by what type of community the campus presented. What is MSUM saying to the potential students of a minority community when the mention of the Rainbow Dragon room is sometimes completely avoided? I’ve noticed that people who walk into the room sometimes seem shocked when the find out just where they are and they end up walking right back out with a flustered or annoyed expression. This, in the words of a friend, is just “not cool.”
Perhaps as a freshman three years ago, I was a bit naive in my initial assumption that a tight knit community like Moorhead would not have issues with GSA comings and goings. Perhaps I was even naive in thinking that college would perhaps offer a better experience as a she-oriented individual than high school did. Apparently my assumptions were wrong. Now, I know that it is mostly up to the club itself to promote its events and purpose, but I feel that the general attitude towards gay people on MSUM is still one of misunderstanding. This makes me sad, but it also makes me want to do something. I’m not going the Lavender route and shouting, “Recruit, recruit, recruit,” in any way shape or form, but I’m going to express what I feel should be known as a common truth. The gay community is present here and we are not sitting out anymore. The time of assuming that being attracted to the same sex, or that being confused about gender identity is something to be ashamed of has passed.
Because this campus has a strong conservative presence and there have even been reports of harassment in the past, if I had not happened upon the rainbow flag in the CMU, I don’t think I would have considered enrolling. It is important for people, especially in this time of their lives when strong relationships can be built, to feel that they have a safe place to go and be heard. The GSA community faces enough problems as is, and in a place of higher learning these problems are nothing but a hindrance to progress. It is my humble opinion that to correct these injustices, MSUM’s GSA club should be a noteworthy point on Dragon Day guides’ itinerary. Conservatives may not like it, but we’re here and we’re queer and nothing they say (or don’t say in this case) is going to change it! Thank you for your time. Stay curious.
Poetry and GSA: Coming out
Published: october 7th
As I’m hoping most of you know, MSUM’s Coming Out Week is quickly approaching. The week after National Coming Out week, Oct. 17-23, is the GSA clubs aspiration to encourage students to “share themselves in hopes of encouraging others to feel comfortable with coming out, or their own gender identity,” Justin Braton said, recent MSUM GSA club member and transfer from Mankato state. Whether you identify yourself as a member or an ally, Coming Out Week is a gratifying experience for everyone. So far, activities planned and organized by our dedicated GSA club members and friends include: Chalk night, Coming Out night, and open mic night and poetry reading at The Red Raven, organized by Lacey Scheelk former 10 percent Club Secretary and Justin Braton.
In previous years, Coming Out Week has colored our campus with stunning sidewalk art and slogan’s. Citywide recognition was gained for the display when an act of vandalism drew the attention of The Forum, but recognition gained through such unfortunate means did little to touch on the intention of such an important week. The point, Lacey said, “Is to come to terms and accept who you are no matter how you define yourself.”
This years Coming Out week will be a landmark for GSA in the introduction of a new event. In order to link together two small communities in the Fargo-Moorhead area, Lacey and Justin have organized the first open poetry reading that focuses on the works of the Gay Straight Alliance community. On Oct. 21 from 7 p.m.-9 p.m., The Red Raven will be opening its’ doors to whomever wishes to share poems or stories related to their experiences as a GSA individual.
The event will kick off with original verse written by Lacey and Justin whereupon the floor will be given to whoever is brave enough to step up. Advertising for this event will be highlighted in the prior weeks Yellow Bicycle publication and on Facebook, but it’s up to word of mouth to really get this event kick-started. The 2010 Coming Out week at MSUM will be a success if students and faculty like you make it such. There are many passionate individuals working very hard to make this campus a home for everyone and proper support is needed and appreciated from the community.
Remember that these poets are your friends and neighbors, members of the community that make up MSUM, so come to The Red Raven on Oct. 21 from 7 p.m.-9 p.m. and show them your support! For questions or comments about what is sure to be a memorable and inspiring event, see GLBTQAI Poetry Open Mic Night Facebook page.
As I’m hoping most of you know, MSUM’s Coming Out Week is quickly approaching. The week after National Coming Out week, Oct. 17-23, is the GSA clubs aspiration to encourage students to “share themselves in hopes of encouraging others to feel comfortable with coming out, or their own gender identity,” Justin Braton said, recent MSUM GSA club member and transfer from Mankato state. Whether you identify yourself as a member or an ally, Coming Out Week is a gratifying experience for everyone. So far, activities planned and organized by our dedicated GSA club members and friends include: Chalk night, Coming Out night, and open mic night and poetry reading at The Red Raven, organized by Lacey Scheelk former 10 percent Club Secretary and Justin Braton.
In previous years, Coming Out Week has colored our campus with stunning sidewalk art and slogan’s. Citywide recognition was gained for the display when an act of vandalism drew the attention of The Forum, but recognition gained through such unfortunate means did little to touch on the intention of such an important week. The point, Lacey said, “Is to come to terms and accept who you are no matter how you define yourself.”
This years Coming Out week will be a landmark for GSA in the introduction of a new event. In order to link together two small communities in the Fargo-Moorhead area, Lacey and Justin have organized the first open poetry reading that focuses on the works of the Gay Straight Alliance community. On Oct. 21 from 7 p.m.-9 p.m., The Red Raven will be opening its’ doors to whomever wishes to share poems or stories related to their experiences as a GSA individual.
The event will kick off with original verse written by Lacey and Justin whereupon the floor will be given to whoever is brave enough to step up. Advertising for this event will be highlighted in the prior weeks Yellow Bicycle publication and on Facebook, but it’s up to word of mouth to really get this event kick-started. The 2010 Coming Out week at MSUM will be a success if students and faculty like you make it such. There are many passionate individuals working very hard to make this campus a home for everyone and proper support is needed and appreciated from the community.
Remember that these poets are your friends and neighbors, members of the community that make up MSUM, so come to The Red Raven on Oct. 21 from 7 p.m.-9 p.m. and show them your support! For questions or comments about what is sure to be a memorable and inspiring event, see GLBTQAI Poetry Open Mic Night Facebook page.
Sex and Such
First article.
Published:
No one’s going to tell you that relationships are all smooth sailing. The truth is they are messy and they can be even more so when they aren’t between a man and a woman. I’m sure you’ve all seen the GSA room in the CMU with the bright rainbow flag and wide open door, occasionally glimpsing a person reading a book or someone typing on the computer. You know it’s there and you see it’s active. However, what many people don’t know is that MSUM has a larger GLBT community than most of its students realize. In fact, I believe this campus has the largest concentrated GSA and GLBT community in the area. That’s a lot of people, right? Right. This column, focusing on the issues and concerns of the GLBT community at MSUM, will be the first of its kind regularly published in the Advocate. This population is now getting a much needed voice that will reach you: the students of MSUM, and hopefully encourage a better and more supportive understanding between everyone on the campus. After all, how do you come to know someone if there is no communication? I along with the other members of the Advocate staff have high hopes for this column and active response and feedback from all of you readers would be much appreciated. Spread the love I say! But I digress. Transsexual, bisexual, asexual (well maybe not you guys), homosexual, or straight. Due to the nature of human interaction, a relationship between two or more people is bound to have it’s kinks, questions, and concerns. In short, it’s going to have its issues. Some of these issues are important to share with the world, and some of these issues, if brought to the attention of others, no longer become an issue in the future. So who better to start gathering the attention than a friendly, non-biased bisexual who has no qualms getting down to the nitty-gritty of any subject. Don’t get me wrong though. Even though I am bisexual, by no means do I assume or mean to imply that I am an expert on all things GLBT. No one is truly an expert on such matters but that is why we have this column. I’ll do my very best to represent the voices of my fellow students and state the issues that demand attention. I certainly do have a fair share of experience that I can offer to the column myself, and I’m hoping that others will embrace this opportunity as I have. Embrace your individual voices my friends, because if you don’t use them, you’re never going to be heard. I’ll take the risk and say that now that the initial ‘acceptance stage’ is out of the way, we need to step up and put a little time into the ‘understanding stage’. Understanding the person sitting next to you, the person across the hall, the person sitting in the GSA room reading a book, maybe even understanding yourself. You are a college student. You live, love, work, and play in Moorhead, and so do I: your friendly, non-biased bisexual columnist. Thus, with that, I formally announce that the Advocate is here representing with open hearts, minds, doors, and closets, the issues important to a strong and vital community on MSUM. Stay tuned, and stay curious.
Published:
No one’s going to tell you that relationships are all smooth sailing. The truth is they are messy and they can be even more so when they aren’t between a man and a woman. I’m sure you’ve all seen the GSA room in the CMU with the bright rainbow flag and wide open door, occasionally glimpsing a person reading a book or someone typing on the computer. You know it’s there and you see it’s active. However, what many people don’t know is that MSUM has a larger GLBT community than most of its students realize. In fact, I believe this campus has the largest concentrated GSA and GLBT community in the area. That’s a lot of people, right? Right. This column, focusing on the issues and concerns of the GLBT community at MSUM, will be the first of its kind regularly published in the Advocate. This population is now getting a much needed voice that will reach you: the students of MSUM, and hopefully encourage a better and more supportive understanding between everyone on the campus. After all, how do you come to know someone if there is no communication? I along with the other members of the Advocate staff have high hopes for this column and active response and feedback from all of you readers would be much appreciated. Spread the love I say! But I digress. Transsexual, bisexual, asexual (well maybe not you guys), homosexual, or straight. Due to the nature of human interaction, a relationship between two or more people is bound to have it’s kinks, questions, and concerns. In short, it’s going to have its issues. Some of these issues are important to share with the world, and some of these issues, if brought to the attention of others, no longer become an issue in the future. So who better to start gathering the attention than a friendly, non-biased bisexual who has no qualms getting down to the nitty-gritty of any subject. Don’t get me wrong though. Even though I am bisexual, by no means do I assume or mean to imply that I am an expert on all things GLBT. No one is truly an expert on such matters but that is why we have this column. I’ll do my very best to represent the voices of my fellow students and state the issues that demand attention. I certainly do have a fair share of experience that I can offer to the column myself, and I’m hoping that others will embrace this opportunity as I have. Embrace your individual voices my friends, because if you don’t use them, you’re never going to be heard. I’ll take the risk and say that now that the initial ‘acceptance stage’ is out of the way, we need to step up and put a little time into the ‘understanding stage’. Understanding the person sitting next to you, the person across the hall, the person sitting in the GSA room reading a book, maybe even understanding yourself. You are a college student. You live, love, work, and play in Moorhead, and so do I: your friendly, non-biased bisexual columnist. Thus, with that, I formally announce that the Advocate is here representing with open hearts, minds, doors, and closets, the issues important to a strong and vital community on MSUM. Stay tuned, and stay curious.
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